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Embrace The Taboo!

Some fantasies can feel impossible to talk about—maybe they seem unethical, go against your values, or leave you questioning yourself. But you’re not broken, and you’re not alone. I provide a safe, judgment-free space where you can explore your turn-ons without shame and discover thrilling, ethical ways to bring them to life!

Your Own Way to Play

Kink isn’t about fitting into someone else’s definition or playing by rigid rules. Whether you’re drawn to subtle power dynamics or intense edge play, your desires are valid. I help you explore what excites you at your own pace—no pressure, no gatekeeping, just a welcoming space to discover what feels right for you.

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Whether you’re in a monogamous relationship, exploring non-monogamy, or diving into solo play, you can start exploring what works for your situation today. Through guided exercises, erotic writing, and deep self-discovery, I help you build a fulfilling kinky life—on your own or with others.

Testimonials

"Harley’s coaching has been nothing short of life-changing for me. I’ve always been curious about kink but didn’t know where to start or how to navigate it safely. Harley provided such compassionate and judgment-free support, offering tools and insights that allowed me to explore my desires in ways I never thought possible. For the first time, I feel empowered and excited to embrace this side of myself. If you’re even considering coaching, don’t hesitate!"

"My sessions with Harley have been absolutely transformative in terms of my kink! With her help, I now have a greater understanding of my kink, not to mention a level of acceptance that I never would have thought possible before starting these coaching interactions. Overall though my main takeaway is that I am really enjoying my kink for the first time. I can’t recommend highly enough!"

"The CNC workshop I did with Harley Rabbit exceeded my expectations. Offering practical advice and tools for fulfilling CNC experiences in a thoughtful, inclusive environment, I left feeling informed, empowered, and much more confident about exploring CNC in a safe, consensual way. This workshop was insightful, respectful and invaluable for beginners. Highly recommend!"

Meet Harley Rabbit

Hi, I’m Harley—a sexologist, kink educator, and host of Turns Out I’m Into It.

For years, I felt ashamed of my desires. I thought something was wrong with me, and I almost gave up on sex and intimacy altogether. Everything changed when I discovered kink. Exploring shibari, power exchange, age play, and CNC allowed me to unlock parts of myself that I never knew existed. Kink didn’t just excite me—it helped me heal, build trust, and connect on a deeper level.

Now, I help others do the same. Whether you’re just starting out, navigating non-monogamy, or wrestling with taboo fantasies, I provide personalised coaching to help you explore, communicate, and embrace your desires with confidence.

My Approach

As a sexologist and kink educator, I believe in learning through real experience. My coaching isn’t about sitting across from you like a therapist; it’s about helping you step into your desires with confidence. Whether you’re new to kink, struggling with a new challenge or just looking to understand your desires better, I provide real-time guidance and support.

Many clients first connect with me through my podcast Turns Out I’m Into It, where I share my own journey in kink. I bring that same openness into my coaching—a space where you can talk freely, explore safely, and feel truly seen in your desires.

Sessions with me are interactive and practical—we don’t just talk about sex and relationships, we practice the skills needed to navigate them. Whether it’s role-playing conversations or mini-scenes, exploring fantasies through guided journaling, or mapping body signals, I help you experience real change—not just theory.

My partner and I enjoy practicing shibari (rope bondage) on the beach together.

“The world has a very narrow view on what sex and relationships should be. I throw the shoulds out the window and instead help people explore what actually works for them.”

– Harley Rabbit

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Turns Out I’m Into It is a fun, sexy, and judgment-free space to explore kink, desire, and everything in between. Hosted by sexologist and kink educator Harley Rabbit, this podcast dives into BDSM, power dynamics, non-monogamy, and taboo fantasies—through expert interviews and candid conversations about Harley’s own journey.

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