Backstage: Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’? (episode #27)
I wanted to share a personal story about a time when my boundaries were crossed. I think this story shows that sometimes we have boundaries that we rather weren’t there – and that’s ok too!
Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’?
I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say “no.” There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.