Hi I'm Harley
Somatic Sexologist

Discover your true self through kink and connection

Welcome!

Bored with your current sex life? I'm here to help.

The world has a very narrow view on what sex and relationships should be. I throw the “shoulds” out the window and instead help people explore what actually works for them. 

There’s no need to be shy—I have extensive experience in kinks and fetishes, and alternative relationship styles. There’s nothing you can say that will shock me. Whatever you are into, I’m here to support you on that journey. I offer personalised guidance, creating a safe space for you to uncover what excites you!

What is kink? And is it for you?

Kink is so much more than whips and leather (though that can certainly be part of it). It encompasses pretty much anything sexy that isn’t just plain sex. 

You don’t have to start in the deep end. In fact, I encourage you to start slow and discover your own unique way to play. Whether it’s blindfolds, sensual rope bondage, or elaborate role plays and group experiences, as long as it’s consensual, nothing is too little, and nothing is off-limits.

My Approch

My approach to coaching may seem quite different from what you’d expect in a therapist’s office. As a proud kinkster and cam model, I’m not afraid to share my sexuality with the world. Many clients first get to know me through my camming, podcast, or Fetlife, where I share intimate details about my personal journey in kink.

I choose to meet my clients on a personal level, creating genuine intimacy and sharing erotic energy during sessions. This allows you to experience real connection and empowerment. This authentic, all-in approach sets me apart and provides a truly supportive and practical coaching experience.

My partner and I enjoy practicing shibari (rope bondage) on the beach together.

Turns Out I'm Into It - Podcast