12 Naughty Ideas to Spice Up Your Christmas! 😈
It’s December already… and as a little break from thinking about family gatherings, organising presents, and overthinking how long it takes to cook a turkey, I thought it might be fun to talk about how we can give this Christmas a bit of extra spice!
I’m Harley Rabbit — certified sexologist, kink-friendly coach, and professional bad influence. And this year, I’ve put together 12 Naughty Ideas for a Very Fun Christmas.
Chained Valkyrie
Chained Valkyrie is a well-known Fetlife influencer and unapologetic pleasure submissive. With a love for impact, pet play, ABDL, degradation, and more, she brings both openness and depth to exploring kink. Episode #59
Kinky Lens
Kinky Lens is a renowned erotic photographer and creative who has been active in the BDSM scene for decades. Episode #41
Cruciator
Cruciator is an edge-play specialist with more than 30 years experience in BDSM. He’s a seasoned educator, offering in-depth online classes on the psychology, technique, and safety of fear play. He is also the owner of Fetlife’s Fear Play Group. Episode #32, Episode #94
Rapidash
The majestic Pony Player with a jet-black coat, custom tack, and awe-inspiring photos on Fetlife, Rapidash is a living work of art. Episode #90
DaddaG
Meet DaddaG — a long-time member of the ABDL community, devoted caregiver, and the organiser behind Australia’s first age play convention, KangaCon. Epsiode #47, Episode #88
Deadmaxis & Aura Grey
D and Aura are partners in both kink and life—married for 10 years and deeply connected through their shared D/s dynamic, love of rope, and passion for performance. Episode #87
Miss Gen
Miss Gen is a highly respected Shibari educator, performer, and rope sadist. She is the head of EvilGirls HQ, a dedicated rope school in Brisbane, and holds the title of Shihan (Master Instructor) in Kazami-Ryu Shibari. Episode #80
Shelby Devlin
Shelby is a Sex and Intimacy Coach with over nine years of experience, specialising in BDSM and kink. She has a Master’s degree in Sexuality Studies and her role as an advanced instructor at Somatica Institute. Episode #78
Why I Still Share Naked Photos on Fetlife (And Why It’s Not Unprofessional)
Many people might consider the idea of a sexologist sharing erotic photos unprofessional. But I disagree.
In fact, this idea—that being sexual automatically disqualifies you from being taken seriously—is exactly what I’m here to challenge.
I’m both a sexologist and a kinkster. I’m on Fetlife, just like many of you. I don’t sit on a pedestal looking down on the community with a magnifying glass—I’m part of it. I’ve been where you are, I’m still figuring it out, and I share that openly.