In the Dark – Her POV
It’s time to get into bed, and listen to the rain while you fall into a deep sleep. You don’t know it, but you’re not alone. Your step-dad is in your room, watching you sleep. He has drugged you, and now he gets to play with your body while you sleep.
In the Dark – Her POV
Backstage: Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’? (episode #27)
I wanted to share a personal story about a time when my boundaries were crossed. I think this story shows that sometimes we have boundaries that we rather weren’t there – and that’s ok too!
Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’?
I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say “no.” There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.
Collar me, own me
Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and are extremely popular kinky items! So why is that? Why are so many people into the idea of being collared and ‘owned?’ Why are so many others into the idea of ‘owning’ someone else? Particularly if that person is a beloved partner?
Backstage: My collar collection! (episode #26)
I thought I’d ‘Show & Tell’ about my growing collar collection. In this video I talk about each of my different collars and what they mean to me and why. Plus I show off my brand new steel collar from hardrrr.com, which is just about my favorite thing ever! (Well… maybe aside from my cage).
The Many Faces of ‘Free Use’
‘Free use’ is a kink that’s been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately – which is causing a lot of people to feel curious about what it means. The best definition I could find, defines Free Use as: “An arrangement between two consenting adults. One partner has the liberty to initiate sex […]
Backstage: My biggest free use fantasy (episode #25)
Let me tell you about my biggest Free Use Fantasy! This one involves having a weekend away with a group of consenting kinksters, to indulge in a free-use weekend – where everyone is available for the taking. This video is in addition to episode #25 of my podcast Turns Out I’m Into It – available everywhere you listen to podcasts!
What’s so Good About a Threesome?
Ever fantasized about a threesome? If so, you’re definitely not alone. For women, romantic culture teaches us that we are NOT into threesomes. We are supposed to want passionate, loving sex with one partner, and how dare you suggest anything otherwise! It also teaches us that men are the ones with the threesome fantasy, and […]
Backstage: What it was like being “spit-roasted” (episode #24)
Sharing some of the more personal stuff I left out of this week’s podcast episode (#24). What it was like to experience being “spit roasted” for the first time, as well as talking about some of the feelings of shame I went through after.
