Harley's Blog
You’re so perfect, I’m so proud of you! (did I just turn you on?)
You are such a good girl / boy. Well done for clicking on this writing. I’m so proud of you for being curious, and wanting to learn more about this kink! 😛
Praise kink has been blowing up on TikTok lately… and before you roll your eyes, I actually think it is great whenever kink is being shared in a positive way on mainstream social media!
Sleep Play: the Gateway to CNC play?
What is Sleep Play? Well, sleep play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in sexual activity with them.
For some people, this sounds super creepy! But for others, there are lots of great reasons why sleep play can be a fantastic turn on! 🔥🔥🔥.
Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’?
I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say “no.” There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.
Collar me, own me
Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and are extremely popular kinky items! So why is that? Why are so many people into the idea of being collared and ‘owned?’ Why are so many others into the idea of ‘owning’ someone else? Particularly if that person is a beloved partner?
The Many Faces of ‘Free Use’
‘Free use’ is a kink that’s been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately – which is causing a lot of people to
What’s so Good About a Threesome?
Ever fantasized about a threesome? If so, you’re definitely not alone. For women, romantic culture teaches us that we are NOT into threesomes. We are
Why I Love the Traffic Light System
Remember that moment in Batman vs Superman when they are trying to kill each other, until they realise both of their mums are called “Martha”
The Things I Don’t Tell my Vanilla Friends…
Let me tell you an awkward story… About 2 years ago I caught up for a drink with a friend of mine – lets call
Exploring my values and boundaries as a Camgirl… 💻
As some of you may have noticed, I’ve recently started Camming on Chaturbate… I wanted to give this a go as a way to further
