Sleep Play: the Gateway to CNC play?
What is Sleep Play? Well, sleep play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in sexual activity with them.
For some people, this sounds super creepy! But for others, there are lots of great reasons why sleep play can be a fantastic turn on! 🔥🔥🔥.
Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’?
I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say “no.” There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.
Collar me, own me
Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and are extremely popular kinky items! So why is that? Why are so many people into the idea of being collared and ‘owned?’ Why are so many others into the idea of ‘owning’ someone else? Particularly if that person is a beloved partner?
The Many Faces of ‘Free Use’
‘Free use’ is a kink that’s been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately – which is causing a lot of people to feel curious about what it means. The best definition I could find, defines Free Use as: “An arrangement between two consenting adults. One partner has the liberty to initiate sex […]
What’s so Good About a Threesome?
Ever fantasized about a threesome? If so, you’re definitely not alone. For women, romantic culture teaches us that we are NOT into threesomes. We are supposed to want passionate, loving sex with one partner, and how dare you suggest anything otherwise! It also teaches us that men are the ones with the threesome fantasy, and […]
Why I Love the Traffic Light System
Remember that moment in Batman vs Superman when they are trying to kill each other, until they realise both of their mums are called “Martha” – then they stop fighting and suddenly become best friends? Lol. That scene always makes me laugh, and for years after my safeword was “Martha.” Safewords are an important part […]
The Things I Don’t Tell my Vanilla Friends…
Let me tell you an awkward story… About 2 years ago I caught up for a drink with a friend of mine – lets call her Kate. Kate is a passionate feminist. Feminism isn’t something I particularly identify with myself, though I do agree with it’s core values, and I appreciate that my friend is […]
Exploring my values and boundaries as a Camgirl… 💻
As some of you may have noticed, I’ve recently started Camming on Chaturbate… I wanted to give this a go as a way to further explore my exhibitionist side, as well as promote my podcast and audio art, and to make a bit of extra cash doing something I enjoy. 🤷♀️ To be honest, it’s […]
No More Someday Goals. Making Kink Dreams a Reality.
I’ve been spending a lot of time on fet lately feeling a little (a lot) jelly of the awesome photos I see on there. I realised a lot of those jealous feelings come from feeling unsatisfied in my own kink progress. As much as I’m having better sex now than I’ve ever had, there are […]
The Case of the Harry Potter Pyjamas
Picture me, about 18 months ago, in the pyjamas section of Big W. I was anxiously walking back and forth, holding a pair of pink, Harry Potter themed PJ’s… Over and over again, I would pick them up and start walking toward the registers, only to turn around and put them back on the rack. […]
