My first water bondage scene! đ§
So last week I got tied up in ropes in my friend’s pool. I had my arms, wrists and legs tied, so I could not swim at all⊠the experience was amazing, but not at all what I expected!Â
What is “kinky” anyway?
I recently learned a framework in my studies that really challenged the way I feel about kink, and what is considered to be âkinky.â This framework is called the 3 Dimensions of Sex, and it basically tells us that there are 3 distinct types of sex that humans enjoy. All of which are common, healthy and as normal as one another. The 3 dimensions are Partner Engagement, Trance and Roleplay.
You’re so perfect, I’m so proud of you! (did I just turn you on?)
You are such a good girl / boy. Well done for clicking on this writing. Iâm so proud of you for being curious, and wanting to learn more about this kink! đ
Praise kink has been blowing up on TikTok lately⊠and before you roll your eyes, I actually think it is great whenever kink is being shared in a positive way on mainstream social media!
Sleep Play: the Gateway to CNC play?
What is Sleep Play? Well, sleep play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in sexual activity with them.Â
For some people, this sounds super creepy! But for others, there are lots of great reasons why sleep play can be a fantastic turn on! đ„đ„đ„.
Do you Find it Hard to say ‘no’?
I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say âno.â There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.
Collar me, own me
Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and are extremely popular kinky items! So why is that? Why are so many people into the idea of being collared and âowned?â Why are so many others into the idea of âowningâ someone else? Particularly if that person is a beloved partner?
The Many Faces of ‘Free Use’
âFree useâ is a kink that’s been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately – which is causing a lot of people to feel curious about what it means. The best definition I could find, defines Free Use as: âAn arrangement between two consenting adults. One partner has the liberty to initiate sex […]
What’s so Good About a Threesome?
Ever fantasized about a threesome? If so, you’re definitely not alone. For women, romantic culture teaches us that we are NOT into threesomes. We are supposed to want passionate, loving sex with one partner, and how dare you suggest anything otherwise! It also teaches us that men are the ones with the threesome fantasy, and […]
Why I Love the Traffic Light System
Remember that moment in Batman vs Superman when they are trying to kill each other, until they realise both of their mums are called âMarthaâ – then they stop fighting and suddenly become best friends? Lol. That scene always makes me laugh, and for years after my safeword was âMartha.â Safewords are an important part […]
The Things I Don’t Tell my Vanilla Friends…
Let me tell you an awkward story⊠About 2 years ago I caught up for a drink with a friend of mine – lets call her Kate. Kate is a passionate feminist. Feminism isnât something I particularly identify with myself, though I do agree with itâs core values, and I appreciate that my friend is […]
