Kinksters vs Swingers – A Night at the ‘Erotic Ball’
So it’s not quite what the Fairy Godmother had in mind, but I had a great night out at the Townsville Erotic Ball! This was a big event for our regional North Queensland community and brought in awesome humans from all over the state! The Erotic Ball was technically a “Swinger” event and this brought […]
Conquering my Needle-phobia With Kink! 💉
As a kid, I was terrified of needles. To be honest, I’m not a big fan of them as an adult either, but as a kid I was properly terrified! I remember when we’d get the notice handed out at school, about an impending “needle day,” my stomach would drop, and I would spend the […]
Toxic Monogamy is the Enemy of Love
Monogamy is something most couples never really discuss. It is generally assumed when we enter a relationship, it will be monogamous, and that is that. After all, monogamy is the only way to show true emotional commitment to someone… right? Well I strongly disagree. I’m not here to hate on anyone’s life choices. I have several close […]
What it’s Like to Watch Your Partner Fuck Someone Else
The idea of watching your partner deep in the throws of steamy hot sex with “another woman” is an unbearable thought for – let’s face it – most people. Yet when Slade and I were invited to partake in this very experience the other week, we couldn’t be more excited about it! Slade and l […]
Everyone Deserves to Feel Special and Loved
Everyone deserves to feel special and loved. That was the main motivation for my latest erotic meditation ‘Doting Girlfriend Takes Care of You.’ It is a simple story… the listener gets home from a hard day’s work, and he is doted on by his gorgeous girlfriend. She sits him down, removes his clothes and gives […]
I don’t think I’m meant to be turned on by this… 😳
Have you ever been turned on by a scene in a movie that is definitely not supposed to be sexy? Well that’s what happened to me back in 2019, when I was watching Shazam at the cinemas. Yes… Shazam. The DC superhero film. There is a scene that takes place at a board meeting in an office […]
Exploring my Objectification Kink – When Shitty Experiences Can Have a Silver Lining
In the bedroom, one of my favorite feelings is being objectified. It turns me on like crazy! For example, when Slade fucks me from behind, and balances his phone on my arse so that he can watch porn, while he uses me like a piece of fuck meat. 🤤 Gah… so good! But hold on…. […]
Why I’ve decided to show my face on Fet…
Hey Fetlifers, so… this is me! I’m hanging out at home in my gorgeous kink cage. I still have some of yesterdays make up on and my hair is a mess, but I really like this photo because i feel like my authentic self in it, and that’s someone I’m trying to be more often […]
Ode to the Male Doms – Your Dominance is Your Gift
To all the good male Doms out there, I want to say something that you probably don’t hear enough. Your dominance is your gift, and let me tell you why… The role of a Dom is not easy. It is a huge responsibility that requires excellent communication, trust and careful judgment. As a submissive, when […]
Are my kinks healthy? Turns out… Yes!
Some kinks are playful and fun, like being spoilt with attention, or bathed in chocolate sauce – but what about the less empowering ones… what if you’re turned on by rape fantasies and degradation…? That has been my question for years. Even as I’ve become more comfortable in exploring these kinks, there has always been […]
