Why I’ve decided to show my face on Fet…
Hey Fetlifers, so… this is me! I’m hanging out at home in my gorgeous kink cage. I still have some of yesterdays make up on and my hair is a mess, but I really like this photo because i feel like my authentic self in it, and that’s someone I’m trying to be more often […]
Ode to the Male Doms – Your Dominance is Your Gift
To all the good male Doms out there, I want to say something that you probably don’t hear enough. Your dominance is your gift, and let me tell you why… The role of a Dom is not easy. It is a huge responsibility that requires excellent communication, trust and careful judgment. As a submissive, when […]
Are my kinks healthy? Turns out… Yes!
Some kinks are playful and fun, like being spoilt with attention, or bathed in chocolate sauce – but what about the less empowering ones… what if you’re turned on by rape fantasies and degradation…? That has been my question for years. Even as I’ve become more comfortable in exploring these kinks, there has always been […]
I used to be a jerk about Age Play – this is why
Sex is a fundamental human need, yet in modern society, it is a topic deemed “inappropriate” in most settings, especially if the sex you desire is anything outside the vanilla! No wonder so many people have trouble bringing up kink with their partners. Kink shaming is everywhere. It’s so normal you don’t even notice it. I remember […]
Caged at a Party – Thank You!
Over the weekend I found myself locked in a cage, being stared at, poked, prodded with a cane, and fondled by groping hands… it was sooo fun! For the purposes of privacy I won’t disclose any details of the place or persons involved, but I’m super grateful to all of you 🙏🏻😊 After arriving at […]
Exploring Little Space
Not very long ago at all, my partner and I had never thought about exploring DDlg. In fact, we were honestly a little judgey about it, because like most people, we didn’t understand it and found it quite confronting (lol such noobs!). A little while into our kink journey, the curiosity about DDlg started to […]
A Little Further Down the Rabbit Hole
We had a great time at the night munch on Saturday. We got talking to a fellow kinkster about how she enjoys stapling herself. Slade and I, still new to this world, were honestly a little shocked, but also totally fascinated! The next day we were cuddling in bed. Out of curiosity, I asked him, […]
Why I Want You to see me Naked
Posting naked photos of yourself on the internet is something most girls are warned against their whole life. We are told it is “slutty” and “reckless” and it will inevitably cause us shame and regret in the future. The consistent, undisputed message (at least in my experience) has always been: “THIS IS NOT OK!” I […]
