I help curious kinksters to explore their desires and experience their most fulfilling sex life!
How can I support you?
Reconnecting with Your Body:
Build a better relationship with your body by recognising signals, sensations, and embracing self-acceptance.Enhancing Confidence in the Bedroom:
Build confidence and address concerns like low libido or erectile dysfunction.Discover Your Core Desires:
Uncover the emotions and sensations that bring you fulfillment and unlock your erotic potential.Exploring Fantasies in Creative Ways:
Use erotic writing as a creative outlet to explore and deepen your fantasies.Supporting Your Kink Journey:
As an age player, rope bottom, and someone who loves CNC (rape fantasy), I understand the complexities of kink. I can help you work through shame, build self-acceptance, and embrace your kinks in a safe, supportive way.Healing Through Kink:
Use kink as a tool for healing, reclaiming agency, and reframing past experiences. This can relate to sexual and non-sexual kinks.Navigating Relationship Structures:
Explore monogamy, polyamory, or open relationships to find what truly works for you.Shame-Free Communication:
Express your needs, boundaries, and fantasies freely and authentically.
My Services
Private Coaching
Work with me in personalised coaching sessions either in-person or via Zoom, and together we will set goals and address your unique challenges, all while aligning with your personal values.
Workshops
My workshops cover a range of essential and specialised BDSM topics, providing practical knowledge and skills to help you confidently navigate your kinky journey.
What it's like to work with me...
During our sessions I will help you feel into your authentic desires, and build your confidence in the bedroom.
Imagine a space where your deepest feelings and desires are listened to, and celebrated. During our private sessions, you will receive personalised support, with the compassion and confidentiality you need.
We will start with a get-to-know-you session where you can share your situation, challenges, and goals. From there, we will work on uncovering your core desires—the feelings you want most out of sex. This foundational understanding will guide much of your journey and the types of experiences that will be the most fulfilling for you.
From there, depending on your goals, we might discuss ideas and fantasies, practise conversations, and do embodiment exercises. These exercises will help you connect with your body and the deepest parts of yourself. The ultimate goal of our work together will be leading you toward a more authentic and fulfilling intimate life.
Sessions can be weekly, fortnightly, or monthly.
Book a
Connection Call
I invite you to book a free connection call with me, where we can discuss your goals and challenges, and see if my coaching is a good fit for you.
This is a no-obligation opportunity to explore how I can support you on your journey.
FAQ's
Sexologist literally means I study sex. Sexologist isn’t a protected term in Australia, however, I completed my core training with Somatica® Institute, where I am currently studying for my advanced certification.
Somatic is just a fancy word for “body.” In today’s world we are constantly taught to ignore our body signals and “push through.” In my sessions I help clients get out of their head, and learn to listen to those important signals from the body. Your body can tell you a lot about what feels good and what doesn’t feel good to you.
No. Therapy is a different approach. While therapists generally maintain a level of detachment from their clients, I meet my clients on a more personal level, creating genuine intimacy, and sharing erotic energy during sessions. This means clients get to experience and practice genuine connection.
This means it’s ok to get turned on during a session, and to feel into your desire. This is a natural and beautiful part of being human. This doesn’t means we will be performing sexual acts during sessions, it just means it’s ok flirt and feel into your body’s signals.
Not at this stage. Though you and your partner are welcome to book individually.
No. While my coaching style is more practical than what you would experience in sex therapy, we both keep our clothes on during sessions. If clients have found me through my camming work or fetlife profile, I expect that they understand that my boundaries are different for coaching work.
Guest spots are usually booked a few months in advance. However, if you’d like to be on the show, you can fill out this form and tell me about yourself and what you’d like to talk about on the show. If I think you’re a good fit, I will contact you to organise a date and time.
