I help curious kinksters to explore their desires and break free from vanilla norms.

Are you in the right place?

If you are looking to:

  • Feel satisfied and excited about your sex life.
  • Embrace your desires without shame or guilt.
  • Have clear and open communication with your partner(s).
  • Experience deeper trust, and intimacy in your relationships.
  • Feel more confident, and be able to ask for what you want and need.
  • Overcome performance anxiety and fear of rejection.
  • Explore non-monogamy with clear guidance on how to navigate it.
  • Enter the kink world with knowledge on how to get started and meet like-minded people.
  • Understand how to safely navigate the BDSM lifestyle and mitigate risks.

Then you are in the right place! Book a free call with me today and lets talk!

My Services

Private Coaching

Work with me in personalised coaching sessions via Zoom, and together we will set goals and address your unique challenges, all while aligning with your personal values.

Workshops

My workshops cover a range of essential and specialised topics, providing practical knowledge and skills to help you confidently navigate your kinky journey.

What it's like to work with me...

During our sessions I will help you feel into your authentic desires, and build your confidence in the bedroom. 

Imagine a space where your deepest feelings and desires are listened to, and celebrated. During our private sessions, you will receive personalised support, with the compassion and confidentiality you need.

We will start with a get-to-know-you session where you can share your situation, challenges, and goals. From there, we will work on uncovering your core desires—the feelings you want most out of sex. This foundational understanding will guide much of your journey and the types of experiences that will be the most fulfilling for you.

From there, depending on your goals, we might discuss ideas and fantasies, practise conversations, and do embodiment exercises. These exercises will help you connect with your body and the deepest parts of yourself. The ultimate goal of our work together will be leading you toward a more authentic and fulfilling intimate life. 

Sessions can be weekly, fortnightly, or monthly.

Book a
Connection Call

 I invite you to book a free connection call with me, where we can discuss your goals and challenges, and see if my coaching is a good fit for you. 

This is a no-obligation opportunity to explore how I can support you on your journey.

FAQ's

Sexologist literally means I study sex. Sexologist isn’t a protected term in Australia, however, I completed my core training with Somatica® Institute, where I am currently studying for my advanced certification.

Somatic is just a fancy word for “body.” In today’s world we are constantly taught to ignore our body signals and “push through.” In my sessions I help clients get out of their head, and learn to listen to those important signals from the body. Your body can tell you a lot about what feels good and what doesn’t feel good to you.

 No. Therapy is a different approach. While therapists generally maintain a level of detachment from their clients, I meet my clients on a more personal level, creating genuine intimacy, and sharing erotic energy during sessions. This means clients get to experience and practice genuine connection.

This means it’s ok to get turned on during a session, and to feel into your desire. This is a natural and beautiful part of being human. This doesn’t means we will be performing sexual acts during sessions, it just means it’s ok flirt and feel into your body’s signals.

Not at this stage. Though you and your partner are welcome to book individually.  

No. While my coaching style is more practical than what you would experience in sex therapy, we both keep our clothes on during sessions. If clients have found me through my camming work or fetlife profile, I expect that they understand that my boundaries are different for coaching work.

Guest spots are usually booked a few months in advance. However, if you’d like to be on the show, you can fill out this form and tell me about yourself and what you’d like to talk about on the show. If I think you’re a good fit, I will contact you to organise a date and time.