1:1 Coaching
Hey lovely,
If you’re interested in working with me 1:1, you’re in the right place.
My private sessions are for those who want to go deeper into understanding their erotic selves. To explore your fantasies and Fuck Yeses, uncover the patterns holding you back, and find practical ways to create a sex life that actually feels hot for you.
All coaching sessions are held over Zoom, so you can meet with me from anywhere in the world — as long as you’ve got an internet connection and somewhere private to talk (even if that’s your car).
Individual sessions are $120 USD for 60 minutes.
If we decide after your first session that ongoing support feels like a good fit, coaching packages are available.
Your next steps:
Take a few minutes to fill out the short form below and tell me a little about what you’d like support with.
If I feel like I’m the right person to help, I’ll send you the link to book your first session — or, if it makes more sense, we can have a quick chat first.
I’m looking forward to meeting you.
Harley
From my clients
For the first time, I feel empowered and excited to embrace this part of myself.
Harley provided such compassionate and judgement free support, offering tools and insights that allowed me to explore my desires in ways I never thought possible.
– Empowered Explorer
I’ve unlocked a more authentic side of my sexuality and desires that I’d either buried or ignored.
From our first online session, she created a warm, nonjudgemental and safe space. I felt comfortable opening up about topics that had previously felt embarrassing or taboo.
– Desire Unlocked
Embracing this whole part of myself has changed everything for the better.
Harley’s work has been so validating and gave me the confidence to discover what I’d wanted all along.
– Finally Myself
My sessions with Harley have been absolutely transformative!
I now have a level of of acceptance that I never would have thought possible. I cannot recommend her highly enough!
– Little at Heart
Got questions?
A sexologist is someone who studies sexuality, intimacy, relationships, and desire.
I am certified as a sexologist through the American Board of Sexology (ABS), and I am trained in the Somatica® Method.
No. Sessions are clothed and focused on coaching, communication, emotional awareness, and guided exploration.
We may talk openly about sex, kink, fantasies, desire, and intimacy, and erotic energy is welcome in the space. It’s completely okay to feel arousal or explore fantasies as part of the coaching process.
Unfortunately, no — coaching isn’t covered by Medicare or private health insurance.
Yes, in some circumstances. I primarily work 1:1, but couples sessions can be a great fit when you both want support exploring desire, communication, fantasies, or creating a sex life that feels better for both of you.
Couples sessions are $170 USD for 60 minutes.
If you’re interested in working with me as a couple, mention it in the enquiry form and I’ll let you know if I think I’m the right fit.
That’s completely fine. You can work with me whether you’re single, dating, partnered, or somewhere in between.
A lot of this work is about understanding your erotic self: your desires, fantasies, patterns, turn-ons, boundaries, and what might be getting in the way. You don’t need a partner to explore any of that.
While there is no ongoing commitment required, meaningful change usually takes time. Some clients get what they need after a few sessions, while others choose to continue working with me in an ongoing capacity for deeper support and exploration.
The choice is entirely up to you and your individual needs.
Absolutely. Kink can feel like a whole new world when you’re first stepping into it, and it’s normal not to know where to begin.
We can look at what interests you, what feels exciting or intimidating, and what kinds of exploration might suit you. From there, we can work out practical, realistic next steps so you can explore in a way that feels informed, safe, and right for you.
You don’t need to know yet. In fact, figuring that out can be part of the work we do together.
We can explore what catches your attention, the feelings or dynamics you’re drawn to, what you’re curious about, and what you definitely don’t want. You don’t need a label or a perfectly formed fantasy before you book. We can investigate it together.
Not at all.
Sexuality is not a competition, and there’s no prize for having the “kinkiest” desires. The goal of this work is simply to help you better understand what feels good, exciting, authentic, and meaningful for you.
Yes. I’m polyamory and non-monogamy friendly, and I can support you whether you’re already in a non-monogamous relationship or just beginning to explore whether it might be right for you.