Private Coaching
Your fantasies are trying to tell you something.
Most people think great sex is about acting out their fantasies.
I think that’s the fastest way to never start.
Fantasy is one of the best windows into the erotic mind. But it’s not reality.
Reality involves logistics, communication, and remembering you’ve got to pick the kids up from soccer in an hour.
The good news? Great sex is usually much simpler than we imagine.
That’s where coaching comes in.
We’ll get curious about what your desires are really trying to tell you, uncover the feelings and experiences you’re actually craving, and find simple, practical ways to bring more of them into your life.
🔥 Sometimes it’s finally asking your partner to pin your wrists above your head… and wondering why you waited ten years to say it out loud.
🔥 Sometimes it’s hearing yourself say, “Good. Don’t move,” and discovering that voice was inside you all along.
🔥 Sometimes it’s setting aside a whole evening for the porn you actually love, and sinking into the pleasure without a shred of guilt.
🔥 Sometimes it’s sending a filthy text from your desk at work and smiling every time your phone lights up for the rest of the afternoon.
🔥 Sometimes it’s lighting a candle, then sliding a rope against your skin and feeling your shoulders drop for the first time all week.
Whatever your path looks like, we’ll take it one step at a time. No pressure. No pretending to be someone you’re not.
Small steps. Real change. A sex life that’s unmistakably yours.
Choose Your Session
Coaching sessions are online – which means you can meet with me anywhere that’s private with an internet connection.
Individual Sessions (recommended)
$150 AUD / session
(Approx. $100 USD)
• 1-hour private session over Zoom
• Deep personalised exploration of desires
• Identify patterns, fears, or shame keeping you stuck
• Practical tools for clarity, confidence, and growth
Couples Sessions
$210 AUD / session
(Approx $145 USD)
• 1-hour private couples session over Zoom
• Explore desires and fantasies together
• Support with communication and compatibility
• Practical tools for connection and boundaries
• Great for couples wanting more openness or excitement
FAQ's
What is a sexologist?
A sexologist is someone who studies sexuality, intimacy, relationships, and desire.
While “sexologist” is not a legally protected title in Australia, I have completed professional training in the Somatica® Method and am certified as a sexologist through the American Board of Sexology.
Are sessions explicit or sexual?
No. Sessions are clothed and focused on coaching, communication, emotional awareness, and guided exploration.
We may talk openly about sex, kink, fantasies, desire, and intimacy, and erotic energy is welcome in the space. It’s completely okay to feel arousal or explore fantasies as part of the coaching process.
However, sessions do not involve sexual touch or sexual services.
Will Medicate or Private Health cover your fee?
Unfortunately, no — coaching isn’t covered by Medicare or private health insurance.
Do I need to be kinky to work with you?
Not at all.
Sexuality is not a competition, and there’s no prize for having the “kinkiest” desires. The goal of this work is simply to help you better understand what feels good, exciting, authentic, and meaningful for you.
Can I come alone if my partner isn’t interested?
Absolutely. In fact, individual sessions are recommended for deeper personal exploration. Many people begin this work alone before bringing conversations or discoveries back into their relationship.
You do not need a partner to start exploring your sexuality, desires, boundaries, or relationship patterns.
How many sessions will I need?
While there is no ongoing commitment required, meaningful change usually takes time. Some clients get what they need after a few sessions, while others choose to continue working with me in an ongoing capacity for deeper support and exploration.
The choice is entirely up to you and your individual needs.
Not ready to book yet?
If you’d feel more comfortable connecting first, you’re welcome to book a free 15-minute call. We can talk about what you’re looking for and see what feels like the best fit.