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Babygirl – A Thought-Provoking Look at Kink, Shame, and Desire

Sharing sexual fantasies with your partner can feel like one of the most vulnerable conversations you’ll ever have. After all, these are deeply personal, intimate desires that you might not even have fully accepted yourself. It’s no wonder that many of us struggle to open up about them. But when done thoughtfully, sharing your fantasies can create a deeper connection, foster intimacy, and even make your relationship more fun and exciting.

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How to Tell Your Partner What You’re Really Into… (Even If It’s Super Scary)

Sharing sexual fantasies with your partner can feel like one of the most vulnerable conversations you’ll ever have. After all, these are deeply personal, intimate desires that you might not even have fully accepted yourself. It’s no wonder that many of us struggle to open up about them. But when done thoughtfully, sharing your fantasies can create a deeper connection, foster intimacy, and even make your relationship more fun and exciting.

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How do I feel less shame about my fantasies?

Have you ever had a fantasy you couldn’t stop thinking about—but felt too embarrassed or ashamed to even admit it to yourself? If so, you’re not alone. Shame around sexual fantasies is incredibly common, thanks to societal taboos, fear of judgment, and the internalized belief that our fantasies say something negative about who we are.

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What Kind of Submissive Are You?

The term “submissive” is an umbrella that covers many different roles within kink. To help you navigate, I’ll outline some of the most common types of submissives, so you can see what resonates with you. This list is by no means exhaustive—kink is a vast and nuanced world, and your sexuality is as unique as you are. As you explore, pay attention to what excites you, what doesn’t appeal, and what piques your curiosity. These insights will guide you in discovering more about your sexuality and the types of play you might enjoy.

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Used (Teaser)

Enter a dystopian future, where women have no rights, and are used as pleasure slaves to service the male workforce. Listen, as one pleasure slave is strapped inside a company “Relief Station,” with all her holes exposed.

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My first water bondage scene! 💧

So last week I got tied up in ropes in my friend’s pool. I had my arms, wrists and legs tied, so I could not swim at all… the experience was amazing, but not at all what I expected! 

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Backstage: Water Bondage Death Fantasy (episode #33)

This week on the podcast I shared all about the Water Bondage scene the night before. This turned out to be a profoundly peaceful experience – and not at all what I was expecting. In this video I wanted to go a little deeper into the mindset that I was in during this scene.

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Backstage: My collar collection! (episode #26)

I thought I’d ‘Show & Tell’ about my growing collar collection. In this video I talk about each of my different collars and what they mean to me and why. Plus I show off my brand new steel collar from hardrrr.com, which is just about my favorite thing ever! (Well… maybe aside from my cage).

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Used

Enter a dystopian future, where women have no rights, and are used as pleasure slaves to service the male workforce. Listen, as one pleasure slave is strapped inside a company “Relief Station,” with all her holes exposed.

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